Fast Fashion Phase-Out

When: January sometime // Weather: 40s // Real life: work

I feel like this outfit is the perfect meeting between the old me and new me. The shoes are Everlane, a sustainable brand. The top is Eileen Fischer, also a sustainable brand, and I got it used at a local consignment shop, so doubly sustainable.

Meanwhile, the cardigan was gifted from Shein, the quintessential fast fashion e-retailer. You’ve probably at least heard of Shein because they partner with (read: send free shit to) about a bazillion bloggers. I know because I used to be one of them. In 2018, they would send me 2 or 3 things at a time, and once I featured them on the blog, they would send more.

This went on for several months, and eventually I stopped answering their emails. Even before I was “officially” on my sustainable fashion journey, something just didn’t feel quite right about it. The clothes were of very questionable quality, and while I did in fact wear them, it was usually only once or twice before dumping them at Goodwill.

For a while I tried to justify this in my head – I wasn’t giving rave reviews or actively saying “you guys should try Shein!” BUT, we as bloggers/influencers have to recognize that when we feature a product and give you a link to buy it, paid or not, the subtext is: “I personally recommend this” and “I believe this business is worth supporting.” And the fact was, I did not really want to recommend anyone buy from Shein. I tried out their products because I had the chance to do so for free, but would I spend my own money on them? Probably not.

So, I stopped accepting free stuff from Shein, and now that I’ve learned more about what the fast fashion industry is doing to the planet, I feel extra good about that choice. Shein does claim to make efforts to be socially responsible, and if that’s true, great. But when brand new clothes are priced extremely cheaply (with quality to match the price), it tells the consumer: “This garment is disposable. Wear it once or twice, then toss it. You won’t feel bad because it was so cheap.” That’s not the kind of attitude toward clothes and shopping that I want to promote anymore, so I won’t. I will still try to link to some of the stuff I wear for anyone’s who’s interested, and I will do my very best to link to things that I think are worth your money.

Thank you all for being patient as I sort out how to best use my influence for good. I’m still a work in progress.

Pizza Sweater

faux leather spanx leggings, leopard sweater, long blazer

When: Oct. 29 // Weather: chilly // Real life: work

faux leather spanx leggings, leopard sweater, long blazer
faux leather spanx leggings, leopard sweater, long blazer
faux leather spanx leggings, leopard sweater, long blazer
faux leather spanx leggings, leopard sweater, long blazer
faux leather spanx leggings, leopard sweater, long blazer

This is my “pizza sweater.” Go ahead…scroll up, zoom in, and try to figure out why the hell I’m calling this a pizza sweater. Give up? Good, you should, because you won’t guess.

In September when I went to the beach with my family and we got evacuated for the second year in a row (true story), I went back inland and stayed with my sister in Durham. We hung out, went to museums and restaurants, watched movies, drank wine, and watched her dogs chase each other around. Still a pretty good vacation if you ask me.

One of those days in Durham, it was super rainy because we were still on the outskirts of the hurricane. Rather than go out to dinner, we thought it would be nice to stay in and eat frozen pizzas. We went to Target to procure said pizzas, and in the process got pretty soaked. When we got blasted with the A/C in Target, we were freezing. Target in all of its evil magic somehow knew this would happen, and presented us with a table of cute, soft sweaters for $20. One of them was this leopard sweater, which I promptly purchased and will forever call my “pizza sweater.”

Sweater // Leggings (mine are thrifted from Poshmark!) // similar Bag // similar Boots // similar Jacket