In Memory Of

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When: Saturday before last // Weather: 30s // Real life: road trip to Bloomington

windowpane tie front tee, coated jeans, comfy ankle boots, felt hat

windowpane tie front tee, coated jeans, comfy ankle boots, felt hat

windowpane tie front tee, coated jeans, comfy ankle boots, felt hat

windowpane tie front tee, coated jeans, comfy ankle boots, felt hat

windowpane tie front tee, coated jeans, comfy ankle boots, felt hat

This story has some background but I’ll keep it brief: I went to Indiana University (aka greatest school in the whole world). I majored in art history and minored in modern dance (how else do you prepare for law school?). I barely got to know any other art students, but I made lots of good dancer friends. When you spend many hours in rehearsal in very close contact with people, often wearing spandex, you tend to bond. But I’m terrible at keeping in touch with people other than being friends on Facebook, so I haven’t talked to most of my college friends in several years.

Fast forward to a few months ago, when I learned (via FB, of course) that one of my college dance friends had gone missing while swimming the South Yuba River. He was never found. When anyone dies, all the friends and family gush about what a great person s/he was. Kind, caring, friendly, a light in this world, etc. Well, I promise Ricky Alvarez really was all those things. I’m so happy I got to meet him, and I regret not keeping in touch after we graduated.

Earlier this month I went back to IU for the annual dance concert, which was dedicated to Ricky’s memory. It was beautiful! I’m way too old to know any of the current students, but I was still so proud of them and proud to be part of the legacy of this great program. If I can impart any wisdom to the college kids out there, it’s this: If you care about your friends, tell them now. Don’t wait. Make an effort after you go your separate ways. Sorry to be dark, but you never know if you’ll have a chance later.

Oof. I’m not good at feelings. Let’s talk about something lighter. How cute are these boots?! They’re Dr. Scholl’s so they’re super comfy too. I highly recommend.

Top (on sale) // Boots // Bag (only $25!) // similar Hat // similar Necklace

How to Wear Ankle Boots (Part Deux)

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It’s been almost a year since I originally wrote about how to wear ankle boots. Back then I only had like 4 pairs, and now I have…you know…more than 4 pairs. I’ve learned so much since that first post. Most of it is about law, granted, but some of it is about ankle boots. So it seems like a good time to build upon last year’s advice. Welcome to How to Wear Ankle Boots (Part Deux)!

So. People seem to be wary of ankle boots for a couple of reasons. First, they’re worried they’ll look shorter and/or fatter because of how these boots are cut. Second, they just don’t know what to wear with the boots. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: The key to wearing ankle boots is elongating your legs as much as you can while still showing off the shape of the shoe.

Here are a few ways to wear ankle boots, and what to keep in mind along the way…

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I don’t know why cuffed jeans used to be a big fashion faux pas, but somewhere along the way things changed. Please. Do not be scared to roll ’em up. Roll or fold your jeans so the hem just barely hits the top of your boots. In case it isn’t obvious, this just applies to skinny/straight leg jeans. Don’t roll flared jeans – that’s crazy talk.

Keep in mind: This look should work well with wedge and heeled boots, but it can be a little trickier with flat boots. Ankle boots can easily make you look shorter, so if you’re already short (like me), just be really careful about proportions. And what about socks? That’s also a tricky issue. I think a peek of sock can be OK, but it can also ruin everything. You can play around with options, but if you want to err on the side of caution, I’d say stick with hidden socks.

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For shorties like me – and probably for most average-height ladies too – even chunkier ankle boots can work with skirts and dresses as long as they’re above the knee. Showing more leg makes your legs look longer, but let’s keep it decent, shall we?

Keep in mind: This shorter-is-better rule applies mainly to more casual boots, meaning ones with wider openings and chunky heels. A dressier ankle boot (like I’m wearing in the last photo in this post) is likely to work well with any length skirt!

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In case it hasn’t sunk in yet, making your legs look long and lean is pretty much my main piece of advice for pulling off these tricksy little shoes. Dark leggings are one of the most lengthening and leaning kinds of legwear I know of. In the photo on the left, I’m even wearing them with flat ankle boots.

Keep in mind: If I see you wearing leggings without a top long enough to cover your lady junk, I will yell at you in public, and it will be very embarrassing.

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When it gets too cold out, you might not  want that sliver of exposed skin between your boots and the bottom of your rolled up jeans. That’s when tucking comes in handy. I sometimes put my socks over the bottom of my jeans so they don’t ride up too much.

Keep in mind: This only works with skinny jeans, otherwise it looks pretty tucking weird. Ha…get it?

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Some ankle boots are basically just pumps with some extra coverage on the top of your feet. When the boots are nice and fitted to your feet with narrow openings and thin heels, you can wear them with just about anything you would normally wear pumps with.

Keep in mind: All those other rules are just some tips to get you started. Depending on how daring you are with your style, you could very well break some or all of them! But I saved this for last because otherwise you wouldn’t have read the rest of the post. And I worked hard on it.

 

 

Mastered the ankle boot? You’re ready for your next challenge…

How to Wear Over-the-Knee Boots

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