Not Perfect

joa quilted midi skirt, knotted gingham shirt, double pearl earrings, pink suede pumps, perforated gray satchel

joa quilted midi skirt, knotted gingham shirt, double pearl earrings, pink suede pumps, perforated gray satchel

joa quilted midi skirt, knotted gingham shirt, double pearl earrings, pink suede pumps, perforated gray satchel

joa quilted midi skirt, knotted gingham shirt, double pearl earrings, pink suede pumps, perforated gray satchel

joa quilted midi skirt, knotted gingham shirt, double pearl earrings, pink suede pumps, perforated gray satchel

joa quilted midi skirt, knotted gingham shirt, double pearl earrings, pink suede pumps, perforated gray satchel

The other day I discovered that one of my lovely readers mentioned me on this forum where people talk about fashion blogs. She said mostly very nice things, but with the caveat that I’ve had a lot of “TOTAL misses.” Yes, “total” was in all caps. For a second I had sort of a Mean Girls-style “that’s only OK when I say it” moment. After crying over a pint of ice cream for a couple hours, I embraced the criticism.

Thank you, reader whom I shall call Regina. Thank you for noticing that I don’t conveniently forget to post my not-so-perfect outfits. Thank you for noticing that I like to experiment. Thank you for noticing that I am not willing to freeze to death just to look more fashionable.

You rock, Regina. And this outfit post is dedicated to you.

I’m not a huge fan of how it looks to have this black tee peeking out at my waist. I think a white tee would have looked a little better, but I only have a short sleeve one, and I wanted long sleeves to add some warmth. In a perfect world, I would have worn this without any shirt underneath and without tights and I would have worn it to some fabulous brunch. In June. But I wore it to work in February. I do the best I can with what I’ve got, and I share it with you no matter what.

So thanks once again to Regina and to all the rest of you for supporting me and my imperfectness. There’s plenty of faux-perfection in the blogosphere. Thank goodness you have me to screw up once in awhile (but not THAT often, right?).

similar Shirt // Skirt (on sale) // Bag // similar Shoes (on sale) // similar Sunglasses // Earrings

Pin to Real Life: Black, White, & Pastel

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Left image source: M Loves M (used with permission)

black and white wrap dress, mint coat, black pom pom beanie, clear sunglasses, ankle boots with dress, m loves m copycat

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black and white wrap dress, mint coat, black pom pom beanie, clear sunglasses, ankle boots with dress, m loves m copycat

black and white wrap dress, mint coat, black pom pom beanie, clear sunglasses, ankle boots with dress, m loves m copycat

black and white wrap dress, mint coat, black pom pom beanie, clear sunglasses, ankle boots with dress, m loves m copycat

Who’s ready for a new “Pin to Real Life” post?! I know I am. If you’re new to this concept, it’s where I take inspiration from the outfit of one of my favorite bloggers and recreate it to fit real life. This is the first time I’ve featured Mara of M Loves M in a P2RL, but in reality I’ve copied several outfits of hers. Now she’s finally getting proper credit.

It was probably her pretty pastel coat that caught my eye, but then her black and white dress reminded me of my favorite wrap dress, and then I got to thinking that it might be a little cool and unexpected to wear such a classic dress with a sorta edgy ankle boot. (Sarah: making lawyer wear edgy since last October.)

Mara’s outfit was already pretty “real” and not too “bloggery” (because that’s a word), but she doesn’t live in the Midwest, so I had to add an extra layer. Now all I have to do is grow a few inches, be drop dead gorgeous, and get a better camera. No problem.

similar Dress // similar Coat // similar Boots* (on sale) // Bag // Cardigan (under $25) // similar Ring* // similar Bracelet (on sale) // similar Sunglasses // similar Beanie*

*Boots and ring purchased with gift card provided courtesy of H&M; beanie purchased with gift card provided courtesy of Shopbop.